Are girls objects?

Are girls object?
This question seems awkward right? But when you will start reading this blog you will understand why this question was raised. Have you ever heard about arranged marriage? Or have you ever had the bad luck to get a proposition for wedding and it is not even the guy who proposed it is the aunty who has seen you in a wedding, in a funeral or in a party and said to herself this girl should be the daughter in law of my brother.
Then one day without knowing it the boy will come to your office and have a look at you. As if you are an object which has been exposed in a shop and he came to have a look if it is a good product.

Then if HE likes then the aunty will meet your mum and tell her about the wedding proposal. Saying that the guy has already seen the girl and he likes her.

This is so stupid!

If the guy had not like the girl then she would never know that someone came to choose her. What does they think of themselves?? I feel like slapping these people. Why does these aunty have to look for a girl for their nephew? Is he handicapped? Can't he find a girl by himself? And is this a way to choose a girl?
Have they ever thought about what the girl feel like when she get to know about all these things.

Being a girl I would feel like a shoes in a shop and a guy has to buy a new pair so he comes over and see of he find the pair of shoes which fits him. What if I am a Louboutin and he is someone who does not even know what is a louboutin because the only thing he wears is some kind of made in china shoes.

Dear guys who does such things do you think you are awesome? Am not at all sorry to say that you are not the only thing i can say is that you are too stupid to allow an aunty or your mum look for girls for you. Move your big fat lazy as... and ask a girl out by yourself.

Umme